Given a camera, every individual: Be it a slum boy, a
foreigner, a regular person, a millionaire, each us one of us would have a different perspective and that’s the best way to explain how perspectives vary
and not necessarily all are right or wrong, so the question is
What can we do to empower these perspectives of life?
The foremost thing to remember is:
Let’s control our perspective before the perspective
manhandles us.
After I saw the TEDxUofW of Angela Popplewell, I realized
that “Our circumstances are no way
responsible to define us or shape us, it is about how we choose to respond,
interpret and act to what happens to us during the circumstance”
A few things where we may be a little off the track is:
1. Striving for validation always
Is it necessary to make decisions based on a second person’s
validation?
Why do we seek validation, though we smell pretence from
most of the people around us?
Do we need to be bothered about society before our own
self?
2. You are more than a gold mine. Comprehend your value.
It is wrong when you look around for people to give you
attention and sympathy.
Don’t sympathize with yourself.
It’s easy to get lured by the society’s attention but on a
long-run, knowing yourself helps better in being happy and secure.
3. Comparing yourself with other fellow being is a foolish thing to do.
Believe me, the worst thing you could be doing right now is
comparing your life with someone’s materialistic assets, happiness, friends,
monetary wage and it goes on. There is no end to it.
4. Looking for logic in everything that happens.
Yes, we do this. Come on, you don’t have to lie to me.
Don’t you look for logic when a person flirting with you
suddenly stops doing it?
Don’t you feel weird when that one friend started bitching
on your back?
We try to reason ourselves with the answers to these
questions, cause if we don’t; it takes a toll on our self –esteem,
self-confidence and inner peace.
5. Little things make us way happier then the biggest achievements with strangers.
Ever wondered why you don’t get happier on your biggest
achievements at times??
It’s either because you got it lucky or you don’t have the
the right person to celebrate it with.
Even our smaller achievements make us happier for a longer
time and this is only because you are internally happy about everything that’s
going on.
6. We don’t learn from our mistakes.
Well, I am right now the best possible example of this.
It’s not that I don’t comprehend my situations better; I just end up in the
same wrong situations again and again because of a simple reason that I let
them happen.
Learn from Sanchita, Don’t be like her.
7. Failing to stand up for something that you know is worth standing.
You know what; you don’t know the value of standing up for
something unless you do it.
Standing up for something doesn’t mean it should only be for
you.
Stand up for something without any greed, pretence and it
ought to give you back some value, May not be in 60 or 90 days but definitely
within a lifetime.
8. Hope, my friend, HOPE, DON’T let it leaves you.
There can be no explanation for not letting the hope fly
away. You just know that hope is the only thing left with when you have nothing
else left to desire.
The second thing I realized about
life is “Nothing is ever too broken that it can’t be fixed “.
This dear friend is a philosophy in itself. Don’t let your
impatience and lack of knowledge frustrate you to let go off things.
Don’t forget that being happy doesn’t mean you are a 100 %
a fortunate person with no kind of troubles ahead or behind of you, it just means You look the Lions in the eye and
realize that life isn’t always uncomplicated, life isn’t always as per planned,
we have to realize that life needs to be fixed every time though we don’t have
a machine or instrument to fix it always! In short, your perspective can change the way you love your
life.
I will finally tell you if we have 100 reasons to be tired
of life, there is just one reason to live again, it is solely our
responsibility to change our perspective and we are solely responsible for the
the path we choose or we don’t!
Summon yourself to walk beyond the
constraints of your regular life to value each day —remember each instant is an
opportunity to erect a life-size home and cherish its a stand against the
upcoming struggles.
Let me know how a change in perspective changed your life
forever and how you feel living your new life!
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