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Difficulty in every opportunity or opportunities in every difficulty?...

Such great words would have been once said by someone great. I think statesman Winston Churchill would be great enough to qualify that. One man’s calamity could be another man’s opportunity. Never to forget “Difficulty breeds opportunity”. Many universities who do research often said that the optimists would give up their mission when they saw something unforeseen but pessimists would instead gauge their limitations and challenges and make it happens and indeed go on to succeed in their projects. So seeing an opportunity isn’t sufficient to make you an optimist and successful, but instead It’s the effort to take up the challenge and not make reverses and rejections redound to your advantage. In a person’s life cycle, it is normally not possible to always remain an optimist; we have this change of perspective in different stages of our life.  We realize that optimism is about facing the problem as it is, and succeed in its completion with...
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10 Secrets to have a better perspective on life

Given a camera, every individual: Be it a slum boy, a foreigner, a regular person, a millionaire, each us one of us would have a different perspective and that’s the best way to explain how perspectives vary and not necessarily all are right or wrong, so the question is What can we do to empower these perspectives of life? The foremost thing to remember is: Let’s control our perspective before the perspective manhandles us. After I saw the TEDxUofW of Angela Popplewell, I realized that  “Our circumstances are no way responsible to define us or shape us, it is about how we choose to respond, interpret and act to what happens to us during the circumstance” A few things where we may be a little off the track is: 1. Striving for validation always Is it necessary to make decisions based on a second person’s validation? Why do we seek validation, though we smell pretence from most of the people around us? Do we need to be bothered about society ...

How to avoid overthinking at night?

We all have those days when its pitch dark and our eyes wide-open, dazed in thoughts deeply while we think about the pink elephant at the corner of the room. We all have those nights when it is simply impossible to turn our brain away from the thoughts we want to run away from… If you have trouble setting boundaries to this vicious habit, ask yourself “How to stop Overthinking” Don’t find an answer yet? Well, let me show you some of my ways of dealing with them. 1. Distract Yourself Well, distraction is a term with various meanings. Let me break this down for you.  Distract yourself to something that makes you feel good and is a practical possibility. Keep yourself so busy that you have no leisure time to worry about the non-essentials. The busier your brain, the better it is for a healthy mind. People often quote an idle mind to be a devils workshop. So beware. The only way to stop overthinking is by letting the positive thoughts flow in … 2. Reverse ...

Use the power of thinking to go beyond

Let’s stop obsessing over our negative emotions or about something bad that happened to us. Let us learn how to master our minds more capably, let us not just go the easier way this time, negative thoughts are easier to manifest, let's develop the habit of positive thinking and secure our thinking for something better. The power of positive thinking is indeed phenomenal. Positive thoughts don’t just make happy people but they create genuine value in your life cycle and more importantly help you build a unique and rare skill set. Well, I am not talking about La La Land, It is definitely possible. Don’t believe me? Keep reading!! Why certain people are called happy people? Happy people are not the people who are born with a silver spoon in their mouths or the people who are heir to a booming inheritance. Happy people are not those you achieved success before you could. Happy people are those who see their problems as opportunities and their happiness as a bless...